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Keeping a relationship is hard, if you feel that your relationship is going on a wrong direction and you really want things to work between you and your partner,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there are things you can do to prevent break ups. Your relationship may be going through rough times now but it doesn?t mean it has to end.
We all go through problems and issues in a relationship and the important thing is to recognize the problem and learn to resolve the problem to prevent break ups. Breaking up is the most painful thing that could happen in a relationship and preventing it to happen will save you and your partner to go through unbearable pains.
If your relationship is on its way to a break up, you need to act immediately and do not let things to get worse, you need to sit down with your spouse or partner to talk about the problem. Holding back or delaying things and thinking that this is something you cannot do or you are waiting for her or him to make the first move may not be necessary at this point.
You and your spouse may go through arguments and disagreements, but this is normal in a relationship. What you will do or say during the argument could affect the status of your relationship. Learning how to argue objectively is hard especially if there is anger or disappointment involved but there is no other way but to learn to argue fairly to prevent break ups. Avoid bringing up topics not related to your argument. Choosing the wrong words or action will not prevent break ups but instead it may prompt your spouse to leave. Put yourself in the position of your spouse before saying things that will hurt him or her. You may use the word "I" instead of "You" to make your spouse feel that you are just upset but not blaming him or her.
Learning to face the problem and handle arguments objectively to prevent break ups is an important aspect of any relationship.